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Showing posts with label Family. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Family. Show all posts

Saturday, October 16, 2010

Jordans sum of her heart surgery!

So June 1 2008 after the great nurse at good Sam saw her heart rate was a little high and wanted to re check it once more, which showed a rapid heart rate. So we have him to thank for her today. After seeing a dr in tacome with out any good results or answers we went to childrens and with in days they said she had H factor pylori, AET (Artial Ectopic Tachycardia). So it explained alot of her weight issues and why she couldn't keep up with her soccer sisters. So after ALOT of Meds the H factor Pylori was gone and so in DEC 08 they attempted aElectrophysiology study and Ablation, in which was UN successful, So we waited and as things got worse for her they wanted to try again, so on June 2 09, we went back in and had the surgery again, they were able to see that there was also an Accessory Pathway, along with the AET. So we were told there was a 3 percent chance of it returning. the Next 3 months she had all the energy back. but around September I noticed a drop in her running and energy, I asked her and she said Just because I'm not running that fast doesn't mean my hearts acting up. But come to find out she was just scared because she knew something was wrong but what! After an attack at school, they called me and we went back in so over the last 6 months we have done all those test again and sure enough after the stress test he said they have to go back into surgery, Not sure if its the same as before or something else. So we will be going in for Surgery on June 16th, the surgery will last 6 to 8 hours depending on what they locate.

So Jordan's third Surgery was no so great, they were able to tell us that the Accessory pathway tachycardia

that they located and  did a successful ablation, has stayed closed and didn't re-open, but on the other side of things are the Atrial Ectopic Tachycardia was still there but the location is in the upper chamber but right against the lower chamber So they tried for 8 hours and also gave her straight Liquid adrenal for 6 hours, they were able to try but they didn't get it. So we ended up spending the Night at Children's Hospital. We didn't even get to see her until 10 pm because all the Adrenal they gave her made her sick and gave her a massive Migraine, also they were not sure if she would be okay Thur the night. So My mom had to work in the morning, and Linda and her were both willing to stay with us, but we sent mom home so she could rest, Linda ended up staying and staying in the room with Jordan, because I cant handle the door shut and being trapped in. So Carly and I slept up in the the Family resource center. So we have attended multiple Dr appointments and as things stand know shes a medical mystery, they would need three cases to make it a medical study. That's due to the fact that there are no records ever that show someone who can have two rhythm. So we will keep up out fight and carry on.

I will say that it was harder for Us the first and second time, but i think this time is more scary for her and us with them not knowing what it is and the fear from her is pretty hard. Shes very scared but the Dr did tell her no needles when shes awake... So that helps her alittle...



SO PLEASE SEND HER WORDS ON ENCOURAGEMENT AND PRAYERS!! SHE STILL HAS ALONG FIGHT AND SHE NEEDS SUPPORT FROM ALL HER FAMILY,FRIENDS, SOCCER SISTERS, SOCCER FAMILY, AND ANYONE WHO IS INVOLVED IN HER LIFE!!!!





THANKS

MARY



After the Surgery in June!



Some of her closes friends ever

Sounders Opener March 25 2010


best friends

They are the true meaning of Forever Friends

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Sunday, January 17, 2010

Drews 16th Birthday and Uncle Perrys 29th Birthday

Well this was a great evening with some of our family, Perry was there setting up the stage Jaegar was helping a little and I was going so house work for Grandma while listening to grandpas tapes, and Grandma was having her much needed nap, Zara and the kids got there, the boys ready to play, Drew at the cool age know and well Ava she is so funny, she has a smile that lights the sky and she makes great faces. We were looking at pictures together and when she saw her with her dad she hugged the computer and when she saw her mom and dad she layed her head on the computer. She loved so much and she is so proud of her Mom,Dad,Drew and brothers as she said.
Ryan arrived a little later after getting some beautiful Art work Tattoo on his Back.



also his ribs he had done a few months ago



Eric,Jordan arrived soon after,along with Aunt mary and Dar,Aunt Debbie and Kim, Shawna and Laughton with our baby girl on the way, I got to feel her wiggle around, Mason and His Girlfriend, She was nice, Mason you got yourself a good one!,Great Aunt Mary and Uncle Leon came, Great Aunt Mary Made the cornbread, and it was great. Also It was so great to have Joanna and Gavin and Carter there to!


To watch those boys make songs and music was so great, yes they did miss the others that werent there but we still had fun, We had Chile,hotdogs,cornbread,cheese and Onions and it was great along with that wonderful Costco Carrot Cake.
I have to say even with me not being able to sit in the middle of all of it I could hear them singing and playing the drums.
So I have to say All in All it was a fun relaxing night!


Miss Ave Blue

Grandma Playing the Drum

Just thought this was a great shot
Grandma singing to Perry and Drew

I love to see this some of the cousins playing the music
Jaegar,Logan,Mason,Liam,Carter, and Gavin

Jaegar,Perry,Mason,Logan and Gavin and Liam in the back.

As she sadi look theres Ava Blue!
What a great girl! Shes so funny

Shes Deciding what Song to do she knows so many!

Sunday, November 29, 2009

Our Grandpa Bill



Our Grandpa Bill (Whiskey Bill)


So I wanted to share with everyone the Insight that I have received from my grandpas tapes, I have always love to hear him talk at AA meetings. But I have to say that today I have listened to three of them and i can never get enough of him.


So as i listen to him I can see his face, him standing there in his cowboy boots and overalls or a nice shirt with one of his wonderful Indian turquoise bow Tye, his comb in his front pocket and getting a drink of his coke with ice. I feel at piece with life when hes talking, I will say at my age today I have learned that my grandpa was smarter then i ever though he could be. I do see what hes talking about Your Religion or AA isn't a program its a way of living. As I heard many times in my life was that my Great Grandma (grandpas Mom) Said "Billy, I don't care what you believe in Just grab on to it and hold on tight." "Acceptance is love" he said Its learning to love the right way, my grandpa is amazing, the things hes been Thur and have done I'm so grateful that we had him in our life.
Our grandpa has lived on streets,in cars,in houses with Grandma and there 7 kids. he shared so much in each of these talks, the man who grandpa met in California, he brought my grandpa home, and I'm so glad for that, the way my grandpa explains it. He never wanted to hurt anyone and he thought he only was hurting himself. he said that he had a hard time with Believing in God. He said he tried and one night he lied down after not sleeping for weeks and Ask God to Help Him! He said that night he went to sleep and in one shakeable place he woke up knowing weather he was a live or died He was going to be OK.
He said " I see no evil in you I only see goodness and love in each and everyone of you."
Grandpa said "the truth will set me free and he knows that."
Grandpa said that step 3 of the 12 step book is take your own inventory and as he said he still always was taking inventory,
He said he was 14 of 17 kids and felt that he wasn't wanted, I can define it very simple to day and it an inability to love and be loved. I didn't know how to give and receive."
He said that he got to see his kids 2 months into being sober and he said the week before that he ran into a lady and said "Ma" I'm sober and I'm never going to drink again" he said Her response was "Ya right Bill"then she turned and walked away. That would be our Grandma She was so strong and courageous. He talks about how he took one of his sons to get some shoes and to a meeting and that night after they got home he went to make sure everyone was covered up. Then he saw something that he would never forget. he said "Ma Come look at Chuckie" as she went into the room with grandpa, and saw those shoes on Chuckies pillow. She said Pa those are the first new shoes hes ever got." he was 11 and all these years I thought I was only hurting myself. he talks about his daughter who had joined the program all she wanted was acceptance from her Dad.

He Shared about his Granddaughter, She was 8 or 9 months old and they were going to a meeting and someone said Bill she cant be her. Grandpa said well you see this jug(her bottle) "I've been trying to get her off this her whole life" and then he set her down, she couldn't walk but she stood there wobbling and said "You see her she cant stand still" " Hell She cant even talk right" From that day on she went to that meeting everyday. We would go to breakfast every morning, But that grand baby taught me more about Forgiveness then anyone ever could. She didn't care if I had bad breath or my hair was messy or if I was ugly. She just loved her old grandpa and he knew that. (That is his Rainy).
As for me the words that always helped me were "Its going to be Okay My Mary Girl" I would love to hear him say that once or twice in my last few years of hurt and pain I have been thur.
Also I never thought anything was ever wrong with my family I thought we had the best of everything in our family, We once were said that those Bill Rushton have money we were the rich ones and I will never forget our Grandpas words at that moment "YES WE ARE RICH, BUT WE AREN'T RICH WITH MONEY WE ARE RICH WITH THE LOVE WE HAVE AND SHARE" to so many of us in my family live with that and by that.
My crazy family, i wanted them back when i quit drinking, we had to part and get divorced because we couldn't get past the before and yesterdays. Because of the ability to live this program and the ability to forgive and forget Shes my Best Friend Today.
4 of my crazy kids are in the program and 1 in training. He said if he needs to go to AA he will and I know he wont but that would be OK.
"God is in your eyes your laughter and your smile."
"God I love you people."
I can say that After I listened to all three of those tapes tonight I have a new feeling of its going to be OK and that our grandpa was a wonderful as we thought.